Now, pay attention. Do they buy the best art? The most skilled in composition, color, concept, and subject? The most original? No. The answer is very simple. These purchased artists behave naturally with buyers, both online and offline. They are authentic. They don't flirt or bend over backwards for customers. There are no hidden meanings and messages in their photos, videos, and texts. I've made videos about this, about impressions from profiles. They are confident that their art is needed both by themselves and by people. And it's these artists as personalities that clients choose.
What's really happening? Look. In reality, you're genuinely afraid of sales and clients. And to avoid this, you come up with high standards that, in your opinion, clients should meet to buy your artwork.
All these discussions about the level of clients' education, their popular preferences, the development of taste, you gobble them up with big spoons, even often initiating them yourselves. It feels like before buying, the client should personally pass exams on art history and at least on the basics of spatial composition. The same goes for texts about devaluing famous sales for fairly high amounts, devaluing notable works, and then, to top it off, devaluing the authors, your own colleagues.
In reality, you want to distance yourself from sales as much as possible. Your dream clients never show up. They're all simple, uneducated, want the same thing, not established, not well-off. But I'm a star. And they're not. That's why you don't have clients. It's a very convenient position.
Now look closely. The reason you don't have clients is not because you set such requirements for them. It's because you fundamentally have problems in building healthy relationships. It happens in life in different spheres and, of course, affects the sale of your paintings.
Many buyers try to find and buy paintings, but can't. For the same reason. They're afraid to communicate, discuss, make decisions, afraid of responsibility and commitments.
What should you do? Solve this problem. Stop being afraid of clients and all activities associated with them. Stop being afraid of people, deliveries, payment methods, price ranges, negotiations, gallery websites, and everything else. Then all bars will be removed, expectations will disappear. And you'll finally start showing your works and presenting yourself as you truly are. You'll say to me, "What's the point of discussing the price of your painting and delivery method if you're simply scared of clients and don't even show your face to them?"