I’ve observed that people on social media tend to fall into three distinct categories. The first category consists of those who use their accounts primarily for personal enjoyment. They share moments from their lives occasionally, keeping in touch with friends and following a handful of intriguing individuals whose stories they enjoy.
The second category is much broader: these are the individuals actively seeking to grow their influence on social media. They scour the internet for blog templates, brainstorm topics and headlines, and often participate in collective giveaways. Personally, I have always steered clear of these giveaways. I realized early on that once you enter one, it can become an inescapable cycle, as subscribers may vanish after the giveaway concludes, leaving you desperately searching for your next opportunity.
The third category, which I proudly belong to, encompasses those who blog as the spirit moves them. Whether they feel inspired to post 3-4 times a day or decide to take a five-day break, they manage their content in the way that feels most comfortable to them. Remarkably, they receive the same rewards as those who are obsessively striving for growth.
In upcoming chapters, I will share insights on how to transition into this appealing third category and become a true source of inspiration for your followers.
So…
My dearest kings and queens, my beloved souls, I want to discuss the essence of motivation in blogging and how to become a true source of inspiration for your subscribers.
Let’s clarify one thing: motivation and inspiration are not the same! Motivation stems from external sources; it is an artificially created tool that only works when we choose to activate it. However, you don’t need motivation if you possess a strong will to live the life of your dreams!
My students frequently ask, “How can I stay motivated to blog? How can I find the drive to post new content every day?” My response is always the same: “You don’t have to! Allow others to live the life you envision. Let them receive gifts and collaborations from amazing brands. Let them build vast audiences and bask in the spotlight! It seems, from where I stand, that you may not be entirely ready for that dream star life. For now, embracing a simpler, more ordinary existence may feel more comfortable for you.”