Researchers have already encountered similar differences in past studies. Recently, the University of Toronto conducted a survey among students and found that in the case of oral sex, women are not only less likely to be in the receiving role, but also experience less pleasure from cunnilingus than men from blowjobs.
Still, there is a difference between simply not enjoying oral sex and not enjoying it because of shame about their bodies. The fact that teenagers in the UK labeled vulvas as “disgusting” is indicative of cultural stereotypes about women's bodies. Many women, even as adults, try not to look at their vulvas: their appearance is embarrassing and sometimes disgusting. This approach, of course, leads to problems with intimate health and quality of sexual life.
According to many resources on the web, including the sites “Science. Art. Greatness”, ‘Sexhelper’, ‘Erogen’ and others, studies by sexologists have revealed that in the USA about 54% of men prefer to use cunnilingus during foreplay. Surveys conducted in other countries, say that even there many women prefer oral caresses along with other types of stimulation. The practice of cunnilingus in preliminary and final acts, as well as in case of erection problems, can be considered normal sexual behavior, provided that it fits within the framework of mutual consent and satisfies both the man and the woman.
During cunnilingus, men experience no less excitement, enjoy the caress of the partner and fully accept all the manifestations that accompany this process, just like women during blowjob In addition to this, they realize that the clitoris is the most sensitive area on a woman's body, so there is no more effective way to satisfy the beloved than to directly please him with the tongue.
The demand for clitoral spot stimulation is also due to the fact that it is usually more difficult for a woman to experience orgasm than a man.
First, as a rule, the female orgasm comes later than the male. And, if the man “coped” before the partner, she may lose the cherished pleasure altogether. Secondly, many sexologists believe that without stimulation of the clitoris orgasm does not occur at all, and in most positions of vaginal sex clitoris is either weakly involved, or not involved at all ....