By the way, I have an awesome book on the subject, “Fantastic blowjob from A to Z”. After her no blowjob is not terrible.
All of the above reasons for refusal are solved by the usual frank conversation – and teach you can, and wash her before cunnilingus and, over time, learn to fully trust you and relax. And blowjob is cool, if you do it right.
Lovely young ladies, it's high time to realize and accept the fact that if your lover wasn't interested in satisfying you with oral sex, he or she simply wouldn't do it. Cunnilingus is something that is completely natural and is not in any way obscene or embarrassing. It is just one way of foreplay or an exciting aftertaste. Just like you, your partner may enjoy it, he may actually enjoy it – it is his way of expressing his exclusive affection for you. In addition, it makes him feel good to know that his skills are guaranteed to bring you to orgasm. This scenario is quite realistic!
Remember, my lovelies, that you have every right to enjoy yourself. Just do not interfere with him, let him do everything really well, do not refuse such an offer. At this moment you are sharing your own intimate zone, where each of you receives and gives pleasure.
Why don't men want to?
– A real man will never allow himself to lick something there – so confidently and proudly can declare every third representative of the stronger sex.
Many women regretfully have to agree that their favorite is against cunnilingus. Why? Maybe he has a really good reason for it! Such, of course, there are, but they are not always valid …
Men don't grovel.
Many representatives of the older generation are not particularly interested in oral caresses of female genitals, considering it completely humiliating and unacceptable. While young men, more progressive and educated, on the contrary, try to please their partners in all sexual aspects.
However, despite this, there are still quite a few men who do not welcome such intimate acts. They gather in companies, discuss men's issues and at any mention of cunnilingus they cringe in disgust, saying that they do not do such things. In fact, most of them are still ready and regularly pamper their partner with oral caresses if they want to give her pleasure. And only because of the accepted views and beliefs among “their own”, they never admit it.